When your ideas can take a backseat

I’ve been ‘accused’ by friends of being a ‘formal girl’. Which means words like sorry, thank you, please, don’t bother, I’m fine, etc. play a very significant role in my life. 'No' comes easier than 'yes'.

Let me explain: If you asked me if I want something, watch out if I respond in the affirmative. You can expect a storm. 'No' is what you will hear.

Some of my dearest friends have had to sit me down and refused to accept my ‘no’. Thanks guys.

I now say ‘yes’ to a very few friends.

Unfortunately, I do the 'no' bit with my parents too!

In fact, the other day, my mom asked me if she could come over. She wants to see me and stay with us for some time. Of course, I said no. I thought of all the inconveniences to her: Dad would have to be alone. Mom would have to travel alone. Mom would be home alone when we left for work. It’s too hot for her.

I could go on ...

And then, dad just went ahead and booked mom’s tickets! They know me by now. My husband’s learning fast too.

I’m so happy mom’s coming over. :-) I think I’ll relax a bit ...

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